You must know the taker in yourself to know the giver in yourself and vice versa.
As the saying goes, “You cannot know black without knowing white.”
Are you ready for that level of honesty in your life?
The people pleaser in you will always see the takers in your life as givers.
So much so that you may even give in to their giver persona and feel obligated to their needs.
Those same people will present themselves as “givers” telling you how much you have taken from them, and that’s because they’ll never see you worth until you’re out of their lives.
There’s an easy solution to this if it’s a problem in your life… KNOW YOUR OWN VALUE!
If takers are pressuring you to meet their needs at the expense of your own, they’re really saying that “THEY DON’T RECOGNIZE YOUR VALUE TO THEM SO YOU OWE THEM.”
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